Sometimes, one picture isn’t enough to tell a story.
I’ve been fortunate lately to find sets of pictures that let me tell a longer story. Here’s one story told in eight pictures.
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Ride Me Cowboy 1
Ride Me Cowboy 2
Ride Me Cowboy 3
Ride Me Cowboy 4
Ride Me Cowboy 5
Ride Me Cowboy 6
Ride Me Cowboy 7
Ride Me Cowboy 8
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This is a continuation of Restraining Yourself For Someone, Part 1 and Restraining Yourself For Someone, Part 2. This is the 5th way that I’ve come up with that I can restrain myself for my fantasy woman’s enjoyment.
But first, a note of warning. These are not self-bondage ideas. I can restrain myself, but I cannot get myself out of these restraints. These are ideas for restraining myself for my fantasy woman.
Oh, and I usually undress before locking myself up. I still have a cock cage on, though. It makes it easier for my fantasy woman to tease me if I’m naked.
5. Kneeler
I don’t have this, but I would love to build one. It takes up a bit of floor space. I wish I could show you a drawing or a picture. Hopefully, this description is adequate.
Basically, you need:
· 7 8-foot long 4 x 4s
· 1 6-foot long 1 x 8
· 20 6-inch long carriage bolts, 40 washers, 20 nuts
· 1 3 x 3 butt door hinge with screws
· 1 hasp with screws
· 20 2 1/2 inch long flat head wood screws
· 2 large eye screw eyes. Screw rings are even better.
· Carpenters glue
Cut 5 of the 4 x 4s in half, and place them together, lengthwise. If you have a two pipe clamps, use them to hold the 4 x 4’s together. If not, use scrap lumber to make sure the edges of the 4 x 4’s are even.
Measure the width of the 10 4 x 4s (should be near 37 and a half inches). Cut two pieces from a 4 x 4 a half inch shorter than the measured width (should be near 37 inches).
Put the two 4 x 4 pieces you just cut under the other 4 x 4’s, crossing. Picture a raft. The two pieces should be a quarter inch from the end and the sides of the crossing 4 x 4’s.
Since the carriage bolts are only six inches long, you will need to drill 1-inch countersink holes in the 4 x 4’s. Drill the countersink holes in the top 4 x 4’s first, and then drill the bolt hole all the way through, so you can see where in the crossing 4 x 4’s you need to drill the corresponding countersink holes.
After you’ve drilled all the holes, bolt the 4 x 4’s together with the carriage bolts.
Turn the platform on its back, and measure the 1 x 8 so that it will fit diagonally across the 4 x 4’s snugly in between the 2 crossing 4 x 4’s. The 1 x 8 is a diagonal brace to help stabilize the platform. After you’ve cut away the excess, drill holes through the 1 x 8 into the 4 x 4’s at various places, and screw the 1 x 8 to the 4 x 4’s.
Turn the platform back over. With a pencil in your hand, kneel down on the center of the platform so that your ankles are hanging over the back edge of the platform. Mark with the pencil around your knees. You will chisel some of the wood away from the spot where your knees touch the wood. This is so you can put some dried rice or popcorn seeds on the platform before you kneel down. The depression keeps the rice or seeds from getting all over.
Chisel and sand the spots you marked. Go a half-inch past the pencil line marks. You don’t need to chisel very deep, about an inch at the most. Chisel from the back towards the front, sloping. The deepest spots should be closest to the front of the platform.
Now, you need to build a wooden stock to hold your ankles. Cut two 3-foot lengths of 4 x 4 and lay them next to each other. Measure two ankle holes off-center, leaving more wood where you’re going to mount the hinge and less wood where you’re going to mount the hasp. Carefully cut the ankle holes with a coping saw. This will take a while, and you might have to replace the blade. Sand the ankle holes until smooth.
Place the bottom 4 x 4 across the back of the platform. You want to align the holes with the knee holes you made earlier. Put the hasp side of the 4 x 4 towards your favored hand (right if you’re right handed). Mark the spot.
Attach the 2 4 x 4’s together with the 3 x 3 butt hinge. Use a chisel to cut where the hinge will be screwed to the 4 x 4’s. You want to make sure the 4 x 4’s lie flat on each other when closed.
Screw the hasp to the other end of the 2 4 x 4’s. Make sure the hasp is hanging downward. You want to be able to lock this hasp with your ankles in the ankle stock.
Glue the ankle stock to the platform. After the glue dries, kneel on the platform and make sure you can reach the hasp to padlock it closed.
Screw one of the large eye screw eye near the front of the platform in the center. Screw the other large eye screw eye on the top of the ankle stock in the center of the platform, not the stock.
Congratulations. You’re finished with the construction. At this point you’ll want to finish the platform with paint or stain.
Ok, everything is constructed. Now you want to attach a chain to the large eye screw eye. You also want to attach a short chain to the top of the ankle stocks. The length of these chains needs to be measured with you kneeling on the platform. The front chain will be locked around your cock and balls. The chain attached to the ankle stocks will be attached to a pair of handcuffs.
You’ll need a partner to help you with the chain measurements. Kneel down on the platform and close the ankle stocks. Check again to make sure you can reach the ankle stocks hasp before doing anything else.
Lock a chain to your cock and balls, and handcuff your hands behind your back. Your partner will measure which link touches the screw eyes. She can mark the link with a drop of nail polish.
After she unlocks you, you cut the chains to length. You want an extra 2 links on the handcuff chain, and an extra 5 links on the front chain. You want to have some slack.
Lock the chains to the screw eyes. With your partner watching you, lock yourself to the kneeler. Note any problems.
When you can easily lock yourself to the kneeler, you’re ready to suffer for her. Naked. With popcorn kernels in the knee depressions.
Your partner determines how long you spend in the kneeler. The first few times should be short. Later, she can lengthen the time you spend kneeling for her.
If you have any other ideas about restraining yourself for someone else, leave a reply. If you’re a woman and orgasm control, as well as restraint, sounds good to you, definitely leave a reply.
This is a continuation of Restraining Yourself For Someone, Part 1. These are 3 of the 5 ways that I’ve come up with that I can restrain myself for my fantasy woman’s enjoyment.
But first, a note of warning. These are not self-bondage ideas. I can restrain myself, but I cannot get myself out of these restraints. These are ideas for restraining myself for my fantasy woman.
Oh, and I usually undress before locking myself up. I still have a cock cage on, though. It makes it easier for my fantasy woman to tease me if I’m naked.
2. Simple handcuffs.
This idea is more for when my fantasy woman and I are out somewhere.
She pulls a pair of handcuffs out of her purse, and tells me, “Go lock yourself to (that post, that tree, whatever).
This is where practicing locking your wrists behind your back benefits you. Because you do not want to lock your wrists in front of you if you don’t have to. It’s much more comfortable to stand or sit with your arms locked behind you. If the post or tree is that massive, then you have to lock your arms in front of you. And you will be that much more uncomfortable.
This is used when your fantasy woman really does not want to be bothered with you, or more likely, when she wants to flirt in front of you. It makes the other man relax to know that you cannot stop them from doing what they want. Let him think that you want to stop him, if it makes him hornier for her.
3. Kneeling at the foot of the bed.
We have a sleigh bed with 6 cargo ties attached, one on each end and one in the middle of the headboard, and one on each end and one in the middle of the foot-board.
My fantasy woman uses the center cargo tie on the headboard to lock my wrists and the center cargo tie on the footboard to lock my ankles when she wants to teasingly masturbate me. That way, she can lie on either side of me while I’m restrained.
With a length of chain, two padlocks, and a pair of handcuffs, I can lock myself kneeling at the foot of the bed.
I lock the chain around my cock and balls, behind the ring that holds my stainless steel cock cage. Then I kneel down, pass the chain through the cargo tie on the center of the foot-board, and lock the chain around my neck. Finally, I lock handcuffs on my wrists behind my back.
If I try to squat on my ankles, the chain pulls my neck down to the bed. I can move a little, but I have to kneel straight for as long as my fantasy woman wants.
My fantasy woman has the whole bed to play on. She can read or masturbate in front of me. When she wants to smoke, she can sit at the foot of the bed with the ashtray right under my face. The ashtray is only 9 inches below my neck, so the smoke and the smell are annoying.
For her, there I am. I can’t go anywhere. The perfect time for her to talk to me about whatever she wants to talk about. For as long as she wants to talk about it.
4. Standing on tiptoes.
The previous activities were restraints. Sure, kneeling at the foot of the bed involved kneeling. On carpet.
These next activities fall more under torture. Or at least torment.
In my bedroom, there’s a 3-foot length of chain bolted to a joist in the ceiling. I stand on a wooden box that’s 8 inches off the floor.
I tie my ankles together with a 10-foot length of rope. I lock my wrists to the chain above with leather wrist restraints, and a padlock. The restraints have to be wide enough to support my weight. If I had suspension wrist restraints, I would use them.
Then I jump off the wooden box.
Now, I’m standing on my tiptoes, or hanging from my wrists. Since hanging from my wrists is painful, I do my best to stand on my tiptoes.
By the time my fantasy woman comes up to the bedroom to check on me, my legs are trembling. She watches me for a while. Sometimes, she’ll hold me while she smokes a cigarette.
Finally, mercifully, she’ll untie my legs and help me back on the wooden box. She gets a step stool, and unlocks my wrists from the chain. I usually have to rest for a while on the bed after this torment.
If you have any other ideas about restraining yourself for someone else, leave a reply. If you’re a woman and orgasm control, as well as restraint, sounds good to you, definitely leave a reply.
A few weeks ago, I was talking with a phone sex operator. I told her about my orgasm control fantasy, and how I wanted to suffer for my fantasy woman. We were talking about a couple of my restraint ideas, and she said,
“You know, I’ve never thought about restraining yourself for someone else’s enjoyment until you brought it up. It’s logical, but I’d never heard of it before.”
I couldn’t find a lot about this subject on the Internet. So, why not write about it in my web diary. I wrote so much, that I’ve divided it into 3 parts.
Many years ago, I dabbled with self-bondage. Like many, I didn’t have a play partner, and I wanted to restrain myself. I figured out an easy way to use handcuffs, ankle cuffs, and a pair of construction cinder blocks to lock myself up.
Figuring out how to keep the key out of my reach for a while was a bit harder. I tried a couple of ideas that were ok, but not great. Finally, I figured out that I could freeze the handcuff key in a container of water. You people scoffing, all of this happened before the Internet.
I tied fishing line to a handcuff key, and froze the handcuff key in the center of a container of water. When I wanted to restrain myself, I’d tie the other end of the fishing line to the handcuffs, and lock myself up. I’d have to wait for the ice to melt to get the handcuff key. The bigger the container, the longer I’d have to wait.
After a couple of years, I tired of bondage just for the sake of bondage. Sure, restraint is still fun for me. As long as there’s a woman around to enjoy my predicament. But I no longer had the desire to restrain myself.
So, what does all of this have to do with my orgasm control fantasy?
In my fantasy, I love the idea of my fantasy woman telling me, “Go lock yourself up.”
I love the idea for these reasons:
So, borrowing from the ideas I had when I was locking myself up, I came up with 5 ways that I can easily lock myself up, and let my fantasy woman find me already restrained. I’ll discuss one of the ways in part 1.
But first, a note of warning. Except for the first method, these are not self-bondage ideas. I can restrain myself, but I cannot get myself out of these restraints. These are ideas for restraining myself for my fantasy woman.
Before you try any of these ideas, you should practice locking yourself into and unlocking yourself from a pair of handcuffs. Practice locking your wrists together in front of you with the keyholes facing your wrists.
Once you can easily lock and unlock your handcuffs with your wrists locked in front of you, practice locking and unlocking the handcuffs with your wrists locked behind your back. Again, make sure that the keyholes face your wrists before you lock them. Keep practicing until you can easily lock and unlock your handcuffs with your wrists locked behind your back.
Oh, and I usually undress before locking myself up. I still have a cock cage on, though. It makes it easier for my fantasy woman to tease me if I’m naked.
1. Cinder block stocks.
I already mentioned this idea in this post. Here’s a picture of a construction cinder block so you can see what I’m talking about.
The block and the holes have to be big enough to get your feet and ankles through.
I take two cinder blocks, and stack one on top of the other. I sit down on the floor, and put my feet and ankles through the bottom cinder block. I lock my ankles together with ankle cuffs. I put my wrists through the top cinder block. I lock my wrists together with handcuffs.
That’s it.
My fantasy woman brings a couple of towels with her. She puts one folded towel on top of the cinder block for cushioning, and drapes the other over the block so she doesn’t scratch herself. She sits down on the towel on top of the cinder blocks.
There she is, two feet in front of me, totally naked, and I can’t touch her. At all.
On the other hand, there I am. I can’t go anywhere. The perfect time for her to talk to me about her shopping, her period, or anything else she wants to talk about. For as long as she wants to talk about it.
Sheer pleasure for her.
Sheer torture for me. 
If you have any other ideas about restraining yourself for someone else, drop me a line. If you’re a woman and orgasm control, as well as restraint, sounds good to you, definitely drop me a line.
I just got off the phone with a phone sex operator at Niteflirt. She was a nice woman, and, for the most part, we had an interesting conversation about my orgasm control fantasy.
It would have been a nicer conversation if the phone sex operator had followed a few simple rules.
1. Do not interrupt the caller, ever.
If a guy wants to pay 1.99 a minute to talk to you, let the man talk. It should not require a lot of effort on your part to remain silent until he is finished speaking. Ladies, let me let you in on a secret. Phone sex isn’t radio. Dead air is your friend. The meter is still running. You are still earning money. Dead air allows you to think about what you’re going to say next.
If the caller wants you to weave a story, he’ll tell you. If the caller wants to have a conversation with you, he’ll tell you. Listen, and learn to tell the difference. Otherwise, you’re leaving money on the table.
2. Do not talk about your fantasy. Talk about the caller’s fantasy.
This should not require an explanation, but unfortunately, it does. I have better calls with phone sex operators that know nothing about orgasm control than the ones that claim it’s their specialty. At least the operators that don’t know anything about orgasm control can learn something if they’re open minded. The ones that think they know all about orgasm control are shocked when I tell them that no, I don’t want to beg, and no, I don’t want to be used.
My fantasy is unique. I would go as far as to say everyone’s fantasy is unique. Learn to listen to what the caller is saying that makes his fantasy unique. Even if it’s the 600th time someone calls with a cuckold fantasy.
3. Do not argue with a caller.
The worst thing that happens to me on a phone sex call is when a phone sex operator wants to argue with me about my fantasy. I just want to hang up and try another operator.
Let me be clear here. You do not have to talk about a fetish you don’t want to talk about. If the caller asks your opinion, you can tell him that you would prefer to act differently if you were in the caller’s fantasy. If the caller asks your opinion, you can tell him that his fantasy doesn’t sound realistic. However, don’t tell the caller that any aspect of his fantasy is wrong.
4. Try real hard to remember what the caller tells you.
The second worst thing that happens to me is when a phone sex operator forgets what I tell her 5 minutes later, and says that I like something that I specifically said I don’t like. I don’t have much advice here. Take notes. Otherwise, quit. I don’t want to talk to someone that can’t remember details for 5 minutes.
Now, I’m not expecting the operator to remember call details a week or a month later. It’s nice when it happens, but it’s not realistic. But 5 minutes? I don’t think that’s too much to ask.
I feel better now. I didn’t rate the Niteflirt phone sex operator down, but I’m glad I got this off my chest. It will be a long time before I call her again. If I ever call her again.
As always, your comments are welcome.
Sometimes, one picture isn’t enough to tell a story.
Here are some recent captioned picture pairs that I’ve done.
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Cruel Wife 1
Cruel Wife 2
Earn Your Time 1
Earn Your Time 2
Neighborhood Cuckold 1
Neighborhood Cuckold 2
Ogle Penalty 1
Ogle Penalty 2
Pedestal Worship 1
Pedestal Worship 2
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My last post was about a NiteFlirt flirt I know who’s developing a tease and denial relationship with her husband. I’m glad that we’ve shared tease and denial ideas and I’m glad that her relationship with her husband is fun and strong.
Ever since we had that conversation, I’ve been fantasizing about what it would be like to join her household. I don’t think that her husband would like that, and I don’t think that they would want to support me, but it’s a fun fantasy to think about. This fantasy is based on things she’s told me, along with some of my own desires.
Her husband doesn’t enjoy pain and suffering. She wants the opportunity to be cruel, to induce pain and suffering. That would be my role.
Basically, I’m her slave.
She’d have her boyfriend to fuck, her husband to tease and deny, and me to torment. For her, the relationships together would be perfection. She’d have someone to fulfill all of her desires and fantasies.
For me, it wouldn’t be as much fun. I’d only have her attention when she wasn’t with her boyfriend or her husband.
She would lock me in a shed when she was with her husband. I’d be locked in the shed every night and all weekend. Being left alone so much would get boring pretty quickly, but this is a fantasy.
She would keep me naked and locked in a cock cage. I’d have blankets to keep me warm in the shed when the weather turned cold. I’d sweat when the days were hot and sunny. There’s a portable toilet in the shed for me to use.
A typical weekday would go something like this:
After her husband left for work, she would put some scraps of food in a dog bowl. She would come out to the shed with the food and water. She’d put the food and water down on the shed floor and watch me eat and drink.
After I finished eating, she would lock my slave chains on. Basically, my wrists would be locked together, using leather wrist restraints, with a 2-foot length of chain. My ankles would be locked together, using leather ankle restraints, with a 2-foot length of chain. Then the two chains would be locked together with a 5-foot length of chain.
I would go and do yard work, while she either watched me or went back in the house.
She would put lunch on the porch. Scraps of food and water in dog bowls. After eating, it would be back to the yard work, until an hour before her husband was due home from work. Then she would hose me off, and I’d go back in the shed till the next morning.
Monday mornings are special. On Monday, I’m allowed into the house to hand wash her underwear and hose. I’d be allowed to take a shower first. Then I’d wash her bras, panties, and hosiery in the bathroom sink. After hanging everything up in a basement room, she would take this time to be intimate with me. She might let me kiss her while she’s smoking, or allow me to fondle her breasts for a minute.
If she had any cruel indoor act she wanted to try, this would be the time set aside for the cruelty.
Afterwards, it would be time to go back outside and do more yard work.
Anyway, that’s the fantasy. I wish I could come up with something that would make the time spent locked in the shed less boring, but there’s just too much idle time to fill.
I’ve spoken on the phone with a flirt from NiteFlirt for a couple of years now. When we first started talking, she invited men over to her house and fucked them while her husband sat in a chair, watching and masturbating.
I had a chance yesterday to have a long conversation with her. In the last few months, she’s added tease and denial play to her cuckold relationship.
Now, she locks her husband in a basement room when her boyfriend comes over. She has him get undressed, and they go down to a small room in the basement. She locks his wrists behind his back, and attaches a chain from his wrists to an eyebolt in the wall about a foot off the floor. She locks chains from his ankles to the same eye, but his ankles aren’t locked together.
The wrist chain is long enough that he can sit, kneel, or lie on the floor. However, the wrist chain is not long enough for him to stand up. The ankle chains are longer, and allow him to move around some.
She has a baby monitor in the basement room. She keeps the baby monitor transmitter with her. She forces her husband to listen to what she and her boyfriend are doing. If, for some reason, she wants privacy, she can turn the baby monitor transmitter off.
Her husband is allowed to lie on his stomach and rub his cock on the carpeted floor while his wife is fucking her boyfriend. He may get himself off, but from what I understand, the carpet is rough and scratchy.
Most of the time, she only has her boyfriend over for 2 or 3 hours while her husband is chained in the basement. One time, she left her husband chained in the basement for 10 hours and spent the entire day with her boyfriend.
The teasing isn’t done when her boyfriend leaves. When she goes to unlock her husband, she’ll sit down, naked and pungent from the sex, and talk about how she feels and what she and her boyfriend did that made her excited. She’ll talk to her husband for a while before she unchains him. Why not? He’s not going anywhere, and if he’s smart, he’s not going to interrupt her.
On the rare occasions when she allows her husband to be in the bedroom, he’s tied to a chair. He’s no longer allowed to masturbate while she’s fucking. When the weather’s nice, she’ll tie her husband to a chair on the back porch, and fuck her boyfriend outside.
Her husband is no longer allowed to touch her breasts or ass whenever he wants. Anytime he reaches for her breasts or ass, she can tell him no. Once she says no, he’s not allowed to touch her for the rest of the day. She tells me that he enjoys the arbitrariness, that sometimes he can touch her and sometimes she doesn’t let him touch her.
He can still hug and kiss her. But he’s not allowed to touch her breasts or her ass after she says no. She’ll play with her breasts in front of him, and verbally tease him about his not being allowed to touch them.
We spoke about some other things she is going to try to add to the tease and denial games they’re playing. I’ll write about them after future conversations.
I’m envious of their relationship. I’m more into pain and suffering than her husband, and I prefer knowing what the rules are, rather than arbitrary decisions, but otherwise, she has the tease and denial relationship with her husband that I want to have with a woman.
If you’re a woman, and this sounds interesting to you, write me at webmaster@rftb.info.
I was snowbound this past week, so in between the snow shoveling, I went looking for pictures I could caption. I found quite a few.
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Goodnight Darling
20 Hours
Slave Chains
20 Guys
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Continuing on the breast tease theme, I’ve captioned 3 photographs on the subject of breast tease and denial. I like the clothed model in Perfect Spot the best, probably because the expression on her face matches the caption.
If you’re a woman interested in tease and denial and looking at these captioned pictures, please don’t compare yourself to the women in the photographs. I use the images of women that are available to me. In other words, write me at webmaster@rftb.info and let’s discuss our mutual interest.
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Deal
Perfect Spot
You Know The Rule
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