This is a continuation of Restraining Yourself For Someone, Part 1 and Restraining Yourself For Someone, Part 2. This is the 5th way that I’ve come up with that I can restrain myself for my fantasy woman’s enjoyment.
But first, a note of warning. These are not self-bondage ideas. I can restrain myself, but I cannot get myself out of these restraints. These are ideas for restraining myself for my fantasy woman.
Oh, and I usually undress before locking myself up. I still have a cock cage on, though. It makes it easier for my fantasy woman to tease me if I’m naked.
5. Kneeler
I don’t have this, but I would love to build one. It takes up a bit of floor space. I wish I could show you a drawing or a picture. Hopefully, this description is adequate.
Basically, you need:
· 7 8-foot long 4 x 4s
· 1 6-foot long 1 x 8
· 20 6-inch long carriage bolts, 40 washers, 20 nuts
· 1 3 x 3 butt door hinge with screws
· 1 hasp with screws
· 20 2 1/2 inch long flat head wood screws
· 2 large eye screw eyes. Screw rings are even better.
· Carpenters glue
Cut 5 of the 4 x 4s in half, and place them together, lengthwise. If you have a two pipe clamps, use them to hold the 4 x 4’s together. If not, use scrap lumber to make sure the edges of the 4 x 4’s are even.
Measure the width of the 10 4 x 4s (should be near 37 and a half inches). Cut two pieces from a 4 x 4 a half inch shorter than the measured width (should be near 37 inches).
Put the two 4 x 4 pieces you just cut under the other 4 x 4’s, crossing. Picture a raft. The two pieces should be a quarter inch from the end and the sides of the crossing 4 x 4’s.
Since the carriage bolts are only six inches long, you will need to drill 1-inch countersink holes in the 4 x 4’s. Drill the countersink holes in the top 4 x 4’s first, and then drill the bolt hole all the way through, so you can see where in the crossing 4 x 4’s you need to drill the corresponding countersink holes.
After you’ve drilled all the holes, bolt the 4 x 4’s together with the carriage bolts.
Turn the platform on its back, and measure the 1 x 8 so that it will fit diagonally across the 4 x 4’s snugly in between the 2 crossing 4 x 4’s. The 1 x 8 is a diagonal brace to help stabilize the platform. After you’ve cut away the excess, drill holes through the 1 x 8 into the 4 x 4’s at various places, and screw the 1 x 8 to the 4 x 4’s.
Turn the platform back over. With a pencil in your hand, kneel down on the center of the platform so that your ankles are hanging over the back edge of the platform. Mark with the pencil around your knees. You will chisel some of the wood away from the spot where your knees touch the wood. This is so you can put some dried rice or popcorn seeds on the platform before you kneel down. The depression keeps the rice or seeds from getting all over.
Chisel and sand the spots you marked. Go a half-inch past the pencil line marks. You don’t need to chisel very deep, about an inch at the most. Chisel from the back towards the front, sloping. The deepest spots should be closest to the front of the platform.
Now, you need to build a wooden stock to hold your ankles. Cut two 3-foot lengths of 4 x 4 and lay them next to each other. Measure two ankle holes off-center, leaving more wood where you’re going to mount the hinge and less wood where you’re going to mount the hasp. Carefully cut the ankle holes with a coping saw. This will take a while, and you might have to replace the blade. Sand the ankle holes until smooth.
Place the bottom 4 x 4 across the back of the platform. You want to align the holes with the knee holes you made earlier. Put the hasp side of the 4 x 4 towards your favored hand (right if you’re right handed). Mark the spot.
Attach the 2 4 x 4’s together with the 3 x 3 butt hinge. Use a chisel to cut where the hinge will be screwed to the 4 x 4’s. You want to make sure the 4 x 4’s lie flat on each other when closed.
Screw the hasp to the other end of the 2 4 x 4’s. Make sure the hasp is hanging downward. You want to be able to lock this hasp with your ankles in the ankle stock.
Glue the ankle stock to the platform. After the glue dries, kneel on the platform and make sure you can reach the hasp to padlock it closed.
Screw one of the large eye screw eye near the front of the platform in the center. Screw the other large eye screw eye on the top of the ankle stock in the center of the platform, not the stock.
Congratulations. You’re finished with the construction. At this point you’ll want to finish the platform with paint or stain.
Ok, everything is constructed. Now you want to attach a chain to the large eye screw eye. You also want to attach a short chain to the top of the ankle stocks. The length of these chains needs to be measured with you kneeling on the platform. The front chain will be locked around your cock and balls. The chain attached to the ankle stocks will be attached to a pair of handcuffs.
You’ll need a partner to help you with the chain measurements. Kneel down on the platform and close the ankle stocks. Check again to make sure you can reach the ankle stocks hasp before doing anything else.
Lock a chain to your cock and balls, and handcuff your hands behind your back. Your partner will measure which link touches the screw eyes. She can mark the link with a drop of nail polish.
After she unlocks you, you cut the chains to length. You want an extra 2 links on the handcuff chain, and an extra 5 links on the front chain. You want to have some slack.
Lock the chains to the screw eyes. With your partner watching you, lock yourself to the kneeler. Note any problems.
When you can easily lock yourself to the kneeler, you’re ready to suffer for her. Naked. With popcorn kernels in the knee depressions.
Your partner determines how long you spend in the kneeler. The first few times should be short. Later, she can lengthen the time you spend kneeling for her.
If you have any other ideas about restraining yourself for someone else, leave a reply. If you’re a woman and orgasm control, as well as restraint, sounds good to you, definitely leave a reply.