In the description of my fantasy woman (in Seeking a Woman to Adore, Part 2), I mentioned measured breast fondling. I’ve not seen much written about this fetish. Frankly, I’ve not seen much written about breast fondling at all.
Judging from some of the search queries that people use to find my web diary, fondling a woman’s breasts is a topic that interests a great many people. I know I find the subject interesting.
I shouldn’t have to say this, but it’s not obvious to a lot of people. Different men and different women respond differently to breast fondling. Different men and different women respond differently to almost anything.
I’m a man and I enjoy having my nipples played with. This includes touching, squeezing, nibbling, and biting. Ladies, if you’ve never played with your man’s nipples, you should give it a try and see how he responds.
As far as fondling a woman’s breasts, women can be divided into 3 groups.
Some women hate having their breasts or nipples fondled. Often, these women’s breasts and nipples are super sensitive, and most men are too rough. Try being very gentle.
Sometimes, women feel pain or discomfort when their breasts or nipples are fondled. Men, imagine a woman rubbing sandpaper on your cock. (Those men that like the sandpaper idea, imagine something you find abhorrent.) Now, whether this woman has a physical discomfort or a psychological discomfort is immaterial. Leave her breasts alone.
Some women are indifferent to having their breasts and nipples fondled. For whatever reason, these women have little or no feeling in their breasts and nipples. They might enjoy having their breasts fondled because the man in their life enjoys it, but otherwise, they get no physical pleasure.
Some women enjoy the physical sensations of having their breasts and nipples fondled. Yes men, there’s a psychological factor at work here. The more comfortable and relaxed that a woman is with you, the more likely she’ll enjoy having her breasts and nipples fondled. My fantasy top hopefully will fall into this category.
So, why do I want a female top that enjoys having her breasts and nipples fondled, if I also want her to limit my breast fondling time? I enjoy being teased by her, that’s why.
How is my female top supposed to satisfy her breast fondling desires if she limits my breast fondling time? By playing with them herself, or by having other men in her life to play with them.
Yes, there are women that enjoy fondling their own breasts, especially while they masturbate. Men, this shouldn’t be so hard to understand. Most men enjoy masturbating, even if we have a regular sex partner. Of course, it feels so much better to have a woman masturbate us.
It isn’t that far-fetched to see that some women enjoy fondling their own breasts and nipples. Similarly, they would prefer to have a man fondling their breasts and nipples, but it’s not always convenient.
It would be more of a tease to me if my fantasy woman had me earn limited time to fondle her breasts, while allowing another man unlimited fondling time. I’m pretty sure I’d be more envious of another man fondling my fantasy woman’s breasts than of another man fucking my fantasy woman.
As always, your on-topic comments are welcome.